Single Female Homeowner

Ok so for the past two to three months I have been going through the crazy process of purchasing my very first property ...I'm done. It's mine... 570 sq. feet of mine :) MUST KNOW:  No 25 year old anyone should go through the buying experience without a heavy consumption of alcohol, someone to vent to on numerous occasions and google to search and make sure all of the stuff your signing truly needs to be signed. My coworker told me that the buying experience is one of the top stressful processes people go through in life along with getting a new job, moving and divorce. Holy s*** was she right.... I think my hair thinned along with my waistline during the process and although it is finished, I now have to move onto the next phase which is the moving part..... bring on hair thinning part 2. I have yet to enjoy this actual 30 year ball and chain since painting, cleaning and other little renovations are still being done. I now understand why people wait until their married to make a purchase on a property.... no single sane person should go through this alone. On top of that, I'm breaking my bank for all the items I need for my new spot.... Geez! Can single home buyers get some special assistance please? Thankfully my lovely sister is throwing me a condo-warming party and I was finally able to head to the Target registry for something that didn't involve a baby shower. I registered for my condo :) and can I just say I think its BS that Target only allows for a "Baby Shower" ... "Wedding" & "College" registry.... where is my home buying category Target? Way to make a gal feel unworthy! Nonetheless.... I am glad I made the leap and bought my home. I officially feel like a grown up!

When to turn on Bitch Mode

I have this problem (one of many) being too nice to someone who I once had a "barely blooming relationship" with and have since put them into the "friend zone" for many reasons...AND there still trying to break out of their nice comfy little friend zone and leap into a blossoming relationship that will never happen. 

When do you have to start being blunt to get your message across? 

When a guy goes behind your back and tries to intentionally flirt with one of your friends because you weren't giving them enough attention...  don't you think you would take a few steps back and put them into that comfy friend zone? Well I did. There were no hurt feelings on my end instead the rise of the red flags were floating around in my head. I've called him out on his stupidity and let him know that being my friend is the only relationship we will ever have... he listened, tried to change my mind (he was shut down quick) and eventually embraced the change ... or so I thought. Also... may I remind you all that I'm barely 4 months single and not looking for anything - I must have repeated this to him about 100X.

It is now one week later since I apparently crushed him and I don't think I've ever been so annoyed with someone in my life. Alerts from all of my social media accounts are ringing that this person is tagging me in posts, commenting on pictures, reaching out to me ... that's on top of the 100 texts I'm receiving every hour from him. Ok Ok  maybe 2-3 but that's still too much. My girlfriends are telling me to push back and be "bitchy" - I am not a mean or rude person so to become this bitchy person is very unlike me and I don't want to hurt any ones feelings. 

THIS IS MY DILEMMA! A rational conversation didn't work..... me pulling back and being very short with him isn't working...... is the bitch move the next step? 

I pulled this picture off of the Internet .... this is NOT a conversation from my phone but definitely an example of what I'm dealing with here. Ay yay yay... 

The Breakdown

Virtual world of blogger - yet again I find myself here attempting to let loose. Once upon a time I had a blog that was all about fashion and the latest affordable trends and here I am ....back again not interested in fashion but more interested in letting out all the daily crazy thoughts, memories and experiences out of my head. Believe it or not - being a 25 year old single girl is one tough task and I'm learning day by day how to embrace life and the process of growing as a person. I'll definitely talk openly about topics but will be using nicknames for the people in my life.


411 on me

1. Age- 25
2. Zodiac Sign: Sagittarius - aka super independent (guys in my life either love or hate that)
3. Occupation: FT business student at a university (I love Marketing) and also a FT Executive Assistant to two extremely busy guys (they pretty much take 16 hours of my day... no joke)
4. Hobbies: I would say the gym... but that's not something I seriously enjoy doing.... so baking is my hobby. I want to be a modern day (younger version) Betty Crocker.
5. Relationship Status: SINGLE! I'm not at that point where I'm a proud single girl and I like to brag to the world that I'm single.... I'm 4 months single now and I'm still in that bipolar happy/sad phase. I've literally been off and on with my now EX for over a decade... YES! ONE WHOLE DECADE! We'll get into those details later...